Her Husband Has Been Cheating On Her With Men For Close To A Decade
Yesterday evening, this 35-year-old woman’s life came crashing down after she discovered that her 38-year-old husband has been cheating on her with men for close to a decade.
They have a child together who is almost three, and she’s currently pregnant with their second baby.
She found this all out after she went downstairs in their home last night, and her husband quickly put his phone away.
She snatched her husband’s phone to see what he was hiding and came across his secret social media accounts filled with steamy messages between him and younger men.
Last year, while her husband was in a different country, he hooked up with one of the guys in his messages. He also cheated every chance he got on bachelor party trips or vacations.
On one occasion, he slept with a guy while the two of them were on vacation with her family right before they got married, and he invited this guy back to the resort they stayed at. Even when she was away for work, her husband couldn’t resist inviting guys over to their home.
Her husband then admitted to her that he’s been interested in men as well as women all along, but he didn’t feel brave enough to tell her over the years.
Pretty much ever since they started dating, her husband was going out with random guys he met through an app to sleep with. He claims that out of “respect” for her, he only cheated with guys instead of women too.
All the guys her husband has gone for are in their 20s and super handsome. Her husband maintains the hookups are meaningless; he’s safe while engaging with other people, and he simply did it because he wanted to feel wanted and get more attention.
Andriy Stefanyshyn – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
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Her husband also blamed her, as he says if their personal life was more interesting to him, he wouldn’t have felt the need to look elsewhere.
“He asked me not to break up our family. He understands if i want to leave, but that he doesn’t want me to, that he loves me and wants to make us work,” she explained.
She has signed them both up for counseling as a couple, and she additionally got her husband invidual sessions.
They deleted nearly all of her husband’s social media accounts and hookup apps together, but she allowed her husband to keep a couple of accounts on social media.
She couldn’t survive without social media herself, so she believes it’s an unfair ask to expect her husband to delete everything.
“But what kills me is why he didn’t just break up with me when I couldn’t give him enough of what he needed?” she wondered.
“Why did he stay with me? Why did he marry me and start a family? He’s actually the one that wanted to have kids. And now I feel stuck because I still love him. He was the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy I ever went out with. He was a caring and considerate husband and an absolutely amazing father to our toddler.”
“I love him, but I don’t know how I could ever trust him again. I don’t know how I could ever let him touch me and not think about all the betrayal, the lies, the gaslighting. If this is [an] addiction, will I and our family ever really be enough?”
“I don’t want to give up without trying, but I’m broken. I don’t know how to move forward. I’m worried this shock and all the stress will affect my pregnancy. Even though we’re hiding it from my toddler, I’m having a tough time not crying in front of them.”
What advice do you have for her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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