Her Husband’s Married Brother Keeps Hitting On Her, And It’s Causing Drama In The Family
This 29-year-old woman says that she is pretty attractive by society’s standards, and she was gifted with a large chest.
Due to her looks, she’s always getting attention she doesn’t want from men, and her husband’s 40-year-old brother is no exception.
She thinks it’s important to note that she never wears outfits that reveal anything, and she also doesn’t like to wear a lot of makeup as she doesn’t want to go around drawing even more attention to herself. But she does enjoy getting dressed up for parties or weddings.
Now, her 33-year-old husband has an older brother who used to live in another country but moved home a year ago.
As soon as her brother-in-law moved back and began coming around to family functions, he’s been making her uneasy.
“He makes inappropriate comments regarding my looks, stares at me, stands too close, and is overall creepy,” she explained.
“Recently, he started sending me funny pictures and videos on Messenger. I don’t like it, but I did not make a scene because, on paper, it does look like a normal thing for a BIL to do.”
She brought her worries to her husband, and he promised to talk to his brother, yet pointed out he’s always been a jerk.
She’s forced to see her brother-in-law once a month at a minimum since he and his wife live with her husband’s parents.
Andriy Medvediuk – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
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The last time she hung out with her brother-in-law, he actually tried to touch her backside, and her husband quickly intervened.
This turned into a fight, and her husband pushed her brother-in-law before their dad stepped in to separate them.
She and her husband went home after the incident, but then her mother-in-law dropped by to speak to her. She’s currently a stay-at-home mom to her two children, which is why her mother-in-law knew she could catch her at home for a chat.
“She told me I make my SIL uncomfortable and asked what I thought I could do to remedy the damage that was done,” she said.
“I told her that it’s not me but the BIL who’s making everyone, including his wife, uncomfortable. She told me maybe BIL is being a bit inappropriate, but their family had no problems before I came along, and now BIL’s marriage is suffering, her sons turned against each other, and basically, everything is [a mess].”
“She asked what I was going to do again, and I said I don’t know what you want me to do, really. She told me to apologize to SIL, refrain from coming over until this dies down, and encourage my husband to make up with BIL.”
As her mother-in-law left her home, she mentioned they should keep their little chat between them, and if she told anyone else, she would clearly be showing that she was having a great time causing drama in the family.
She’s left wondering what on earth she should do. It makes her uneasy to have to lie to her husband like her mother-in-law wants her to do.
She can’t see how she did anything wrong here, as her brother-in-law was hitting on her, and she did nothing to encourage the behavior. She’s offended that her mother-in-law is placing the blame squarely on her, and she is concerned about her husband’s relationship with his family suffering further.
What advice do you have for her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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