He’s Considering Divorcing His Wife Of Nine Years Because He Found A Dating App On Her Phone And Doesn’t Love Her Anymore
This 34-year-old man and his wife, who is also 34, have been together for 19 years and married for nine years now. They also have two children – a 6-year-old son and a 4-year-old daughter – who his wife primarily cares for during the work week.
“My wife is a stay-at-home mom, and she has been an amazing stay-at-home mom. I really loved her a lot,” he said.
However, just last week, his phone died, and he wanted to check the score of a basketball game. So, he decided to use his wife’s phone while she was in the shower, but once he went on the device, he realized she had the Bumble dating app downloaded.
“This shocked me, and I clicked on the app and saw that she had conversations with a few people,” he recalled.
To be clear, once he read the messages, he found that they weren’t “overtly” inappropriate. Rather, there was just a lot of flirting and teasing.
Nonetheless, the discovery still shattered him, and once his wife got out of the shower, he confronted her.
At that point, she immediately began crying and apologizing to him. But all he wanted to know was why she downloaded the dating app in the first place.
Well, according to his wife, she only downloaded it to talk to new people and feel good about herself. She also claimed that her sister had recommended downloading Bumble in order to get back her “youthful energy.”
“She said it never progressed past the talking stage on the phone, and she would never have even considered a date with someone, and she said I could see all the chats if I wanted to,” he added.
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While his wife was hysterically crying and very apologetic, though, he wound up telling her that he just needed some space.
It’s now been a week since he confronted her, and he is still reflecting on the whole situation. However, he admitted that he’s “heavily leaning” toward getting a divorce after this.
He realizes that they have two young kids, and ending their marriage would cause their children’s lives to be uprooted.
“But I just don’t love my wife anymore, and I don’t see her as my life partner now and someone I want to be with the rest of my life,” he vented.
So, he’s now been left wondering if considering divorce after finding Bumble on his wife’s phone is justified or not.
How would you feel if your spouse downloaded a dating app? Does it make it any better that his wife was just flirting over text or not? Would you get a divorce after this?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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