She Left And Completely Ghosted Her Cheating Fiancé After Finding Out He Was Having An Affair With Their Mutual Friend
There are a lot of people out there who won’t condone ‘ghosting’ in any relationship circumstance, from a light-hearted fling to a serious relationship.
However, some people feel so betrayed and hurt by their partner’s wrongful actions that they turn to ghosting before trying to work things out.
One woman recently ghosted her fiancé and decided to start a new life after she found out he had been cheating on her with one of their mutual friends.
She’s 27 and was with her fiancé Jonathan for four years. They were engaged for a few months and were in what seemed to be a happy relationship with a close circle of friends.
However, a little while ago, she discovered some shocking news that changed her life.
“I truly thought I would spend the rest of my life together, but I guess I was just too naive to see the truth,” she explained.
“To keep it short, I found out he had been cheating on me with a mutual friend for a couple of months and that our group of friends was covering up his affair. They were all acting strange, so I went through his phone and found out they had a separate group [chat] where they even made fun of me for not realizing.”
She was so baffled by this news and became furious. At first, she wanted to call out Jonathan and their friend group and let them know she knew the truth. However, she eventually decided to flee, as she felt any confrontation with Jonathan or her former friends would be a waste of time.
The next day, after Jonathan left for work, she decided to pack up all of her belongings and leave the life she had built with him behind her.
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“I packed everything I owned, took all the money I put in our joint account, which was a lot since we were paying for our wedding and wanted to buy a house, I blocked [Jonathan and our friends], put my social accounts on private, changed my number, and went back to my hometown [to stay] with my mom and stepdad. I was so mad, I even left my job right away.”
After leaving her and Jonathan’s home, she only confided in a few relatives and friends who were uninvolved in the incident and decided to spend the money she was going to put toward her wedding on a big trip that lasted over three months.
When she returned to her hometown, she turned her life around. She got a new job and even started dating again.
However, her old life came creeping up on her.
“My family and friends are telling me that my ex and ex-friends are bombarding them with texts on social media,” she added.
“They want to know where I am and are asking how I’m doing. They are saying what I did was childish, and I should [at least] talk to them.”
However, she has no intention of reconnecting with Jonathan and her old friends and does not regret ghosting them after what they did to her. Still, their reaching out to her family has her wondering if she did anything wrong.
Should she consider telling Jonathan and her old friends why she ghosted them or leave it alone?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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