She’s Angry The Guy She’s Dating Lied About His Age By 12 Years
This 35-year-old woman has gone on exactly six dates with a pretty amazing man. He’s super handsome, dresses well, and is eloquent.
He’s also smart and charming too. She just went out on a brunch date with him earlier, and she found out that he lied to her about his age.
He put down on the dating app that he’s only 7 years older than she is, but it turns out he’s actually 12 years older.
As for why he lied, he says he gets more matches on the dating app by making himself appear younger.
He admitted it was egocentric of him to lie in the first place, but he insisted women liked him more when comes across in a more youthful way.
She was horrified and not sure what to really say to him. She eventually replied by pointing out that it was wrong to not give a woman the opportunity to make her own informed choice about a man’s difference.
She added that she was disappointed in him, but that’s all she could really manage to come up with in the moment.
“But other than that, I was so astounded by the absurdity of the situation that I just continued the date,” she explained.
“The gravity of what he just revealed slowly started dawning on me. We hugged goodbye. When I got back in my car, the anger started to really hit me.”
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She is absolutely livid with him, as she sees a future with this guy, but that’s all crushed now that he revealed he lied about his age to her.
The lying is disgusting and atrocious to her, and she wishes he chose to lie to her in the first place, as that changes everything for her.
She suspects he only owned up to his age after they realized they share some mutual friends, so she thinks he got worried they might tell her he’s really 47.
However, it has crossed her mind that he owned up to this fact since he felt their relationship was headed somewhere.
“We had fantastic dates, amazing talks, easy vibes, incredible kisses, sweet talk, deep talk, we opened up about each other’s lives, we’re looking fantastic together, ugh,” she said.
“…Was he, in fact, only looking for a hookup, or do I believe him and he wanted to give himself a better chance without the age factor?”
“Why is the quantity of Tinder matches so much more important to him than quality? How does he think starting with a lie helps build relationships? Am I overreacting and it’s just a white lie? Do I ignore the age factor, for he seems like a good potential partner? Or did he just totally ruin his potential because of…lying anyway?”
She’s worried he never liked her in the first place, and she misread their connection, as she doesn’t believe you should lie to someone you want to be with at all. She’s not sure if she should be sad things are going to end here, or happy that it didn’t end over something far worse.
She has also considered speaking to him about the lie and attempting to overcome it, as she has had a wonderful time with this man. She’s left feeling extremely overwhelmed about how to handle the news.
What do you think she should do?
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