She Drunkenly Slept With Her Ex-Husband And Said It Was A Mistake The Next Morning, So He’s Been Accusing Her Of Using Him
This 28-year-old woman and her ex-husband, who is 31, were married for nearly eight years. But, when she was pregnant with their youngest son – who is currently 6 months old – they separated.
She was the one who initiated the separation and broke up with her ex-husband since he had been abusing substances, was abusive toward her, and was very controlling.
Since then, her husband has gotten sober, and they still interact regularly since they co-parent their two sons. Nonetheless, she claimed that she would never get back together with him.
“We broke up several times throughout the years for these issues, and I ultimately decided I didn’t want our kids to grow up witnessing all of that,” she explained.
“Admittedly, I didn’t even want kids, but that’s a whole other thing, and I couldn’t imagine my life without them now.”
As for her ex-husband, she believes they do “fine” co-parenting most of the time. And a few months ago, things were actually really great between them.
Apparently, she’d been going through some personal issues, and her ex was surprisingly there for her – helping her and supporting her through everything.
“Which was unlike him but nice in the moment,” she recalled.
Then, one evening, she wound up getting drunk for the first time in years while her children were with her parents. That same night, her ex-husband was texting her and being super sweet.
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“And I made the mistake of letting him come over,” she revealed.
So, they wound up sleeping together. But, once she was sober the next morning, she made it clear to her ex that it was a big mistake and she shouldn’t have gotten so drunk.
Well, ever since that night, her ex keeps throwing what she said in her face and accusing her of “leading him on.” Her ex also believes that she used him, even though she clarified how she wasn’t even the one who invited him over.
In fact, it was actually her ex who asked to go over to her house. She claimed that she also tried to tell him no multiple times, but eventually, she gave in. So, in her mind, her ex made the choice to sleep with her.
“And I get that I shouldn’t have slept with him, but it’s annoying for him to make me feel bad about it months later still,” she vented.
Just the other day, she finally had enough of hearing it, too. That’s why she finally told her ex-husband that their entire marriage was a mistake. Plus, she said that she wanted nothing to do with him anymore.
If you couldn’t have guessed, this only made her ex more angry, too, and he called her a jerk. She also realizes that she might have been too harsh.
So now, she’s not sure if lashing out and telling her ex-husband that he and their whole marriage was a mistake really did make her a jerk.
Do you think she was too harsh on her ex? Or does it sound like he was gaslighting her for months? What would you have done?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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