His Fiancée Unexpectedly Left Him And Wrote A Goodbye Note Weeks Ago, But Now She Wants To Fix Their Relationship
This 33-year-old man set a wedding date with his 29-year-old fiancée for this upcoming January, and although all of his loved ones hated her, he adored her.
She was there with him when he had absolutely nothing and was a nobody. He could recognize her flaws, but he felt she was the one for him.
In their time spent together, he grew tired of not having enough money to really live a full life.
He desired a family, a nice house, and a serious career. He pictured being able to provide for his fiancée, so he worked hard over the last five years to set himself up for a job that could give them a beautiful future.
“But in doing so, I was there less for her,” he explained. “I was under a lot of pressure constantly and just begged her to hang on. I asked her to trust me.”
His fiancée started pulling back, speaking to more of her male friends, and chatting late into the night on the phone with these guys while he was fast asleep.
He did his best to fix their relationship, but she wasn’t interested. In his pursuit of a better life for them both, he lost his fiancée.
One day, when he came home six weeks ago, he was shocked to find that she had packed up all of her belongings, taken money out of their joint account, and written him a goodbye letter.
She didn’t even have the decency to dump him in person.
Anatoliy Karlyuk – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
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“I sat on the living room floor and cried that night,” he said. “And for several nights, was absolutely crushed. It was very dark for the first few weeks.”
“The last 5 years of my life all seemed to have been for nothing. I was trying to build a future for US, not for me. Now, it felt as though I was crossing the finish line alone. If I had known this path would cause me to lose her in the process, I never would have pursued it.”
A week ago, she actually contacted him and revealed that she’s still in love with him and interested in getting back together with him.
She admitted she struggled with being lonely and that she didn’t do anything with the guys she was chatting with.
She suggested going to counseling together to see if that can help them get back on a good path.
He told his family and friends about this, and they insist he should run as fast as he can and not give her another chance, as they all feel she’s nothing but dishonest.
They have also filled him in on some of the lies she’s previously told them, underscoring her inability to be truthful.
“Despite all of the pain she’s caused me, I still love and care for her so much,” he added. “I tried to fix things many times, but she never reciprocated any of my attempts. In fact, when I was at the peak of genuinely trying to be the best man for her that I could, she left me without saying a word.”
“The day she left, she told me she loved me and to have a good day. As soon as I left, she immediately began packing her things.”
“I just didn’t understand how she could run away like that without saying anything. After 8 years, I don’t even get a face-to-face goodbye? It just felt like the ultimate betrayal. How could someone [who] loves me cause me so much pain?”
He’s concerned that if he does take her back, he could come home one day all over again to an empty home.
She broke his trust, but he does want to attend counseling and do anything to win her back. He wants things to go back to how they used to be, and now he has the time to devote to her instead of his career.
What do you think he should do?
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