She Yelled At Her Sister For Being Out Of Line With Helping Her Plan Her Wedding
In September, this 29-year-old woman is getting married, and she picked that month for two reasons: it’s the month she met her fiancé, and it’s summer’s end.
Now, she has an older sister named Cat, who was supposed to have her wedding five years back, but her fiancé sadly passed away in a motorcycle accident.
Cat was crushed and had a very difficult time dealing with her grief. To this day, Cat is still pretty dark and somber, and she doesn’t maintain relationships long, though she has tried to date.
“When I told my family that I was getting married, Cat was visibly sad, so my mom asked me to involve her in the planning and to ask for her opinion to make her feel part of it,” she explained.
“However, she didn’t agree with my choice of September, thinking it’s a bad month for a wedding. She also didn’t like the colors I picked or the dress I wanted. I tried to listen to her sometimes.”
“At one point, she said, “I can’t believe you’ll be the first daughter MY (not our) father is going to walk down the aisle.” I was gutted by her comment.”
She says her wedding isn’t exactly serious, as her fiancé’s best friend is going to be their officiant and he got a license to do this specifically for their wedding.
She also really wants her wedding to have her and her fiancé’s personalities reflected in the planning, but Cat has made negative comments about many things along the way.
A week ago, she was trying to pick out which groomsmen and bridesmaids would walk down the aisle together, and she mentioned to Cat that her best friend and his boyfriend will be entering together.
shchus – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
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Cat said her wedding’s going to be a total “circus” if she does that and Cat went on to say none of the guests would understand. She found Cat’s opinion troubling, but Cat kept going.
“She continued with her remarks and even called my fiancé to get his opinion,” she said. “At some point, I was fed up and yelled, “You’re out of line because this is my wedding and not yours. Have your own wedding and plan it as you want.”
“I was very angry, and my mom came from the garden to see what was happening. Cat started crying and went to her room.”
“It’s been five days, and she’s giving me the silent treatment. She told my mom that she won’t be attending my wedding. It’s very annoying; she tries to make me feel uncomfortable. For example, if she’s in the kitchen and I enter, she leaves.”
A day ago, her mom asked her to apologize to Cat, since Cat is in a delicate state with the wedding.
But she doesn’t see how she was being a jerk, even though her mom says yelling at Cat was super mean, though perhaps warranted.
She’s left wondering if it was wrong of her to yell at Cat that it’s not her wedding. What do you think?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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