Your Resentment For Men…
Women who resent men will only make men resent them as well.
As a woman who’s been on the receiving end of abuse (as most of us have), I understand the feeling of resentment towards men, or towards our abuser.
As a woman who’s been on the receiving end of many insults and bullying from men and women alike….
As a person who knows what it feels like to be used, abused and treated like a pet by a sociopath…for more than 20 years (although that wasn’t by a romantic partner), I respect the value of anger towards the people who have wronged us.
The anger has a purpose for your soul and mine.
So, do talk about your pain. Process your pain.
Process your GUILT from hurting men and causing them pain too.
Key Takeaways
Acting from resentment inspires men to resent you too
We’ll discover the real reasons why you feel resentment (and you need to be honest with yourself about which reason applies to you) as nobody else will be
Processing being wronged is healthy and the antidote to resentment
Gratitude for your experiences and what you’ve learned from them helps you heal resentment
In this article, I’ll help you overcome your resentment and give it a new meaning. But first, let’s answer the common question of WHY your resentment exists…
Why Do I Have Resentment Towards Him?
There are several important reasons. You’ll have to decide which is most relevant to your situation. Remember: be honest with yourself.
Nobody else is going to care enough to have your back, and the more honest you can be with yourself, the more you can help yourself.
Because resentment is the easiest response to have.
Because you’re entitled and feel like he owes you something.
Because you were expecting him to be different.
Because you’ve put up with toxic treatment for too long and are just now adjusting to how he’s taken advantage of you.
Because you never prioritized understanding. You’re always looking for what you want over leading with your understanding.
Because you’ve gone to resentment so many times that it’s simply become a pattern of behavior. The good news it that this pattern can be replaced with a new one.
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We Have ALL Been Burned
Everyone has abused and been abused.
Everyone has suffered in love and dating. Everyone has been burned.
I have hurt my lover and I have been hurt.
But resentment and mud-slinging is not all I am.
I am human and I am capable of resentment as well as love and compassion.
I am capable of objective appreciation and understanding of men, the very species (of which a few) made me feel like I was not enough at times.
Many women I talk to and who read my work are quite thoughtful. But I sense that some of us are still suffering.
That suffering sometimes comes out in the form of resentful comments towards men.
That suffering sometimes comes out towards other members in our Facebook group, and yes, towards myself and David at times.
That’s OK. I didn’t sign up for this because it’s easy.
And I’ve been doing this a long time, so there’s close to nothing I haven’t seen.
But if you are suffering, here’s what is important right now:
I believe it’s more important to take responsibility for your feelings, for your past, your choices and for your future.
Take responsibility for where you are now, and what you feel.
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When Women Resent Men, Men Resent Women
Here’s what I know in my soul:
If we as women go out into the dating world and show up with resentment or entitlement (they go hand in hand), here’s what will happen:
MEN will also become more resentful and entitled.
Nobody wins if nobody has the courage to take responsibility.
Our gender doesn’t determine our entitlements.
And there’s nothing like a courageous woman, full of love and value to inspire men to be better.
It’s not our past that determines how we’re entitled to act towards people now.
So, can we stand up, dust ourselves off and take back our innocence now?
Do the quiz: What is my attachment style?
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Fact: 54% of all women have insecure attachment styles and it affects their relationships daily. Answer the next 10 questions to discover what your attachment style is.
1. When it comes to relating to people in general…
I believe people are generally dependable and kind
I get attached to people easily and they often let me down
I don’t believe I can truly trust anyone
People will always come and go
2. To me, the word intimacy intuitively feels
Foreign
Scary
Warm
Angry
3. In my relationship, I tend to constantly…
Worry that my partner will stop loving me one day
Feel repelled when my partner gets too intimate and close to me
Want to learn more about my partner without fear of judgment
Find faults in my partner
4. In my partner’s absence, I…
Look forward to seeing him again
Feel anxious and don’t know what to do
Feel incomplete
Feel free
5. In my most ideal relationship… (choose the one you feel strongest about.)
We would have our own lives & wouldn’t have to depend on each other
I would receive constant love and attention
We would be deeply connected above all else
To feel safe, I would want to have more control in the relationship
6. If a man that I was interested in started to banter with me…
I’d effortlessly banter back
I’d freeze and not know what to say
I’d redirect the conversation because banter is childish
7. If I suspect that my partner has been cheating on me…
I would rather not know about it
I’d ask them about it until they confess
I’d investigate it & find out as much as I can without coming to conclusions
I’d instantly get stressed out of my mind and become angry
8. When it comes to sex… I’d rather have
Casual sex with uncommitted partners
Intimate sex with a committed partner
I’d rather avoid sex.
9. If I share my deepest feelings and thoughts
Perhaps no one would care
Perhaps people may no longer love me
Perhaps I can resonate with the deepest feelings of others
I would never share my deepest feelings
10. If someone I’m dating suddenly becomes cold and distant…
I feel indifferent, even relieved as they’ll need less from me.
I feel like perhaps I’ve done something wrong or perhaps they’ve found someone new
I feel like I need to delve deeper into what is happening without feeling sorry for myself.
I feel angry and vengeful.
Great! Let's access your results & what it means for you..
We are analysing your personal attachment style results right now and preparing a comprehensive summary. On a side note, it is important to understand attachment styles as a sliding scale rather than a fixed set of categories. Here are the reason why…
1. Your attachment style is not fixed but rather plastic, meaning you can over time heal an insecure attachment style, just as you can create more insecurity in your attachment style if you hang around toxic people in your life. Having a sliding scale offers you a solid direction to move towards.
2. Attachment styles should be considered as secure or insecure attachment styles with levels of severity when it comes to insecure attachment. This helps you understand how your own attachment styles developed in the first place and what direction you need to take in order to heal from attachment style traumas. (We’ll explain this further in the first email you’ll get from us.)
3. Almost everyone with an insecure attachment style has multiple categories and patterns within that insecure attachment, (of course to differing degrees).
In other words, you don’t just have a pure anxious attachment style. That may be the predominant pattern in your nervous system, but there is also avoidant in there too when you’re nervous system is overloaded and sick of being anxious all the time. This is why it’s more important to see this framework as a sliding scale and not just a mere set of categories.
So your personal attachment style will fit along the scale you see below.
In order to get your personal attachment style score, please enter your best email address so that we can securely send this to you. (As well as give you $3,765 worth of coaching bonuses to help you cultivate secure attachment within yourself!)
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Take Back Your LOVE For Men
Take back your innate love for men, and your joy for connecting with men.
You have everything you need within you to do that now.
After all, you’re a woman. And you have more power than you know.
Take responsibility for approaching dating men with a sense of understanding, curiosity and playfulness.
If you have suffering, ok.
Grieve. And grieve now.
The more resentment you allow to build up, the more resentment you’ll bring into your own life.
And you’ll see doom and gloom everywhere because you’re looking for it.
Don’t Punish A Whole Species Of Men, Just Because A Few Have Wronged You
Don’t punish a whole species of men, because they might just make you feel punished in return.
It’s reciprocal.
Resentment begets resentment.
Appreciation begets appreciation.
You don’t get better at vetting the low value men by thinking from fear or taking more actions from fear.
(Of course your fear is very useful when it’s useful, but most of the time, it’s not useful).
And you don’t get better at vetting men by being resentful.
You get better at vetting them by becoming better yourself first.
That’s because we can only tolerate those who are like us; those who vibrate at the same level.
It is only when you are better (more resourceful) yourself, that you can choose better.
As that age old saying goes…
”Be the change you want to see in the world.”
P.S. Connect with me on social media
Our new Facebook Group is here… Join the “High Value Feminine Women” Community using this link
Here’s my Youtube Channel The Feminine Woman.
Here’s The Feminine Woman Facebook page…
Here’s my Instagram Pages TheFeminineWoman & My Personal Instagram.
P.P.S. Here are 7 Common Signs A Woman is Low Value in the Eyes of Men.
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